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    Quote Originally Posted by Mishanya View Post
    It's hard to tell cause there could be many reasons. You could ask him yourself. Or you could take him to a dark place somewhere and initiate to see the reaction. These things most often happen when the two are on the couch watching a movie. Can that be arranged?
    Yes. He recently moved and complained I have not yet visited him at his new apartment. He suggested renting movies and pizza and wine. I just have to let him know when.

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    Wine?

    This is painful, you guys drink together and neither of you have figured this shit out yet?

    At least in this case you could blame it on the sip of alcohol!

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    I guess that would be because the wine is not nearly enough to get me drunk...just enough to take the edge off a little bit.

    And yes, I agree. It is quite painful.

    I also forgot to mention that another reason why I have not made moves yet was bc way back when we first started talking to each other, he had said that he likes to be the one pursuing the girl.

    What's up with that?

    It's just a shame he has not yet thrown me against the wall, get his hands tangled in my hair and kissed me like he means it. Damnit.

    Just. rip. my. clothes. off. already. I wish looks could talk bc then he'd know exactly what I mean.

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    Then maybe he's just toying with you.

    Maybe you could try to act uninterested to really f*ck with him.

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    :sigh:
    men--can't live with them, can't live without them. why, oh why, are you so confusing?
    maybe i should go join a convent.

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    Nobody here is going to hand you a magic potion.

    I took my risk when I kissed my current girlfriend on the cheek on the swinging bench in Pensacola 2 years ago. And that wasn't even the greatest obstacle of our relationship.

    I think you should stop being such a priss and kiss the goddamn fool, guys respond better to direct input rather than indirect things like hair flipping and eye batting.

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    Miss, rejection is a part of life. Let's face it, it's GOING to happen to you. There is no one here who hasn't dealt with it in some form or another. It's just a matter of when. Sorry that's the hard truth.

    The good bit is, it's not going to happen EVERY time. Sometimes you'll be on the giving end of it. But hopefully, you'll meet someone who likes you as much as you like him, and it won't even rear it's ugly head in the situation.

    Get over your fear of it and make a move on him. At least, that way you'll know, and you won't be stuck in weird guy limbo.

    Work on that fear of rejection, hun. Getting rid of that will make you unstoppable in dating.
    “Inside every cynical person, there is a disappointed idealist”--George Carlin

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    Quote Originally Posted by Miss Chievious View Post
    Yes. He recently moved and complained I have not yet visited him at his new apartment. He suggested renting movies and pizza and wine. I just have to let him know when.
    And?

    Are going to let him know when or what?
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    Quote Originally Posted by Frasbee View Post
    Nobody here is going to hand you a magic potion.

    I took my risk when I kissed my current girlfriend on the cheek on the swinging bench in Pensacola 2 years ago. And that wasn't even the greatest obstacle of our relationship.

    I think you should stop being such a priss and kiss the goddamn fool, guys respond better to direct input rather than indirect things like hair flipping and eye batting.

    Quote Originally Posted by starbuck View Post
    Miss, rejection is a part of life. Let's face it, it's GOING to happen to you. There is no one here who hasn't dealt with it in some form or another. It's just a matter of when. Sorry that's the hard truth.

    The good bit is, it's not going to happen EVERY time. Sometimes you'll be on the giving end of it. But hopefully, you'll meet someone who likes you as much as you like him, and it won't even rear it's ugly head in the situation.

    Get over your fear of it and make a move on him. At least, that way you'll know, and you won't be stuck in weird guy limbo.

    Work on that fear of rejection, hun. Getting rid of that will make you unstoppable in dating.
    Yes am working on the risk of rejection. I will make my move...hopefully...next time I see him.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Mishanya View Post
    And?

    Are going to let him know when or what?
    Of course...I told him this week or next. He has to let me know when he gets his schedule for work.



    So are we all in the agreeing that I do this after a couple of drinks and if he rejects me then to just get up and leave (hopefully acting cool, calm, and collected)?

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    Quote Originally Posted by Miss Chievious View Post
    So are we all in the agreeing that I do this after a couple of drinks and if he rejects me then to just get up and leave (hopefully acting cool, calm, and collected)?
    If he rejects you ask him what's wrong so you can get an answer why he is like this. There could be many reasons for his behaviour. From him being a virgin to he can't get it up.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Mishanya View Post
    If he rejects you ask him what's wrong so you can get an answer why he is like this. There could be many reasons for his behaviour. From him being a virgin to he can't get it up.
    Yes, I will. After that I can take my dignity and leave.
    Hopefully I won't have to though.

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    Anyone have any scary movie suggestions?

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    Quote Originally Posted by Miss Chievious View Post
    Anyone have any scary movie suggestions?
    Depends.

    How about the newer "The Strangers"?

    It's kind of a new film on classic horror, that implements paranoia and fear rather than mass amounts of gore.

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    Awesome. I'll add it to the list.

    Any other horror flick ideas?


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