This is very personal but I need and answer.

[Bo]

i didn't read the entire thing but i get the gist. All i have to say is pick one girl and stick to that. Best way to go. You have a gf but you're still thinking about Tess and talking to her on an intimate level, you're basically cheating. Really it's up to you to decide whether or not it's worth it to risk the relationship w/ your gf for something that isn't set in stone but go ahead. Guys your age usually don't do the right thing, so i'm going to guess you'll keep going until there is huge blow up. Save yourself from the drama that will probably ensue soon.

[Bendel40]

Ok. So I apologize for the incredible wall of words that made your eyes bleed. But when I was writing it I wasn't asking about grammer. Thank you for those who attempted to help. It truly did. Now me and Brinkley broke up today. And I'm really going to go for Tess. But I'm waiting. Because she gave me the option to date Brinkley. So I'm not taking that away from her and Alex. Is that the right thing todo?

[lightning88]

Ok. So I apologize for the incredible wall of words that made your eyes bleed. But when I was writing it I wasn't asking about grammer. Thank you for those who attempted to help. It truly did. Now me and Brinkley broke up today. And I'm really going to go for Tess. But I'm waiting. Because she gave me the option to date Brinkley. So I'm not taking that away from her and Alex. Is that the right thing todo?

yes,just make sure she knows how you feel and that you want her to be your girl.

[kplox]

You are a kid, you have no idea what a relationship is. Focus on school, your job, then girls.

[TheGreek]

You are a kid, you have no idea what a relationship is. Focus on school, your job, then girls.

Yeah, 'cause that's exactly what you did, right? C'mon man. We were all there. Hell, I still am. Let him have his fun.

[lightning88]

You are a kid, you have no idea what a relationship is. Focus on school, your job, then girls.

that helps him none whatsoever. We've all een there give him a break.

[Bo]

whoa whoa, so this tess girl also has a bf? geezus, we've gotta whole group of cheaters here...so you basically cheated. And she's basically cheating on her bf too. What makes you think she won't still be talking to her exes intimately if you two were to get back together? secondly, never mess with a guy's girl. Vice versa. Get over her obviously, you two aren't together for a reason and you need to learn to stick to one girl before you even consider a relationship. To be frank i don't think everyone your age is too immature to have a relationship BUT from what you wrote it's sounds like you and your group of friends ARE. Do you all enjoy swapping spit with eachother?