Making the decision to end it.

[vashti]

1. Scroll down to the bottom of the page & click on Love Forum.

2. Click on Love Advice Forum.

3. Click on New Thread.

Use proper spelling and keep it relatively short for the best response. And don't be overly sensitive when people don't tell you exactly what you want to hear.

[misombra]

once or twice a year? omg.

you must be an idiot and a really terrible lover.

[Yggdrasil]

Ok, I've obviously come to the wrong place. Can Mods please delete this thread (and my account, for that matter)

And who's this third person we are relying on? We can afford the house together, not seperately - there's something odd about that?

Then one of you moves out and you rent out half of it, or sublease it, to make up for the loss. You don't live in the same house as your ex unless you're into emotional terrorizing. Do you honestly believe that's going to work?

Do you honestly think I thought this would happen when I bought the house? And I did have long term commitment to both

Nobody can read the future, in that you are right.

I'm just confused as to what your definition of working at it is - at what point should I admit I don't love her anymore? Should I have just ignored that and carried on regardless? Is that commitment?

Your ex, stbe, whatever, told you she wanted to work on the relation. I say you didn't put the required work in it and you waited way to long to talk to her about it and to both make that commitment. And that instead of trying to work things out, you fell in love with someone else, thus not helping the situation.

Why the hell am I telling you all this? So you won't make the same mistakes again in the next relation you doofus.

[Gigabitch]

Also, you can delete your own damned thread. Just delete he first post (your own) and everything else will go along with it.

Replacing all of the text with xxxxxx doesn't really cut it.