How to maintain long-distance relationship?

[alinafarace]

Hello everyone,

[IndiReloaded]

1. A solid relationship BEFORE the separation.

2. A definite period that defines the separation (i.e. you both have to know the separation will be ending & when)

3. LOTS of communication. Daily Skype/phone is okay, but weekly letters are great b/c they provide tangible proof of your commitment and can be read more than once. Sending the occasional sentimental gift is nice too for the same reason.

Good luck.

[haz4ever]

Thanks alot guys. Really appreciated ur advise! But I have one more questions. How do I keep a positive mindset? I keep thinking she might betray me one day...it not because of I don't trust her...In fact I believe she will not. However, I don't trust her friends...Her oversea friends have been encouraging her and asking her to accept that guy who is interested in her and gods knw what that guy will do. (Her oversea friends hv no idea she is attach)...With her not drinking alcohol and with her friends that does...it just worrying...I can worry abt this and that...Maybe it just me being too paranoid...But after get betray by my ex, I just can't stop being paranoid!

I don't want to be paranoid! I don't want to be like this...but...I sux!

[Gray]

im in LDR too.
i always get mad whenever there are some issues about my bf and other girls..
it seems like, it's not working...it hurts soo much...
but i believe , too..*it's just me*,
..
it only depends on the future..if it's really u and her..it will always be..
..tip, communicate well with her..remind her that you love her..but dont give too much..
make her feel good..
..if it doenst work well, make her decide.

we're the same, im get paranoid also...
..just make a positive mindset,how?
uhmm, i dunno, but, try to do things you want, than thinking all of those negative thought that you werent sure.
..be with your friends,..smile always...she'll just be ok..