I've been seeing my girlfriend for about 2 and a half years. We've had so many great times since we've been together, we originall started dating just before I left high school as a senior to start University. She started university a year after me and was just starting 2nd year this week.
She'd went on holiday at the start of September for 2 weeks with her friends, 6 of them in total and when she came back she was just different. Conversations were almost painful and she really didn't show any affection towards me. I'd brought it up with her last week and said I was concerned, the reply was she was tired and just needed to get back in to a routine.
I'd originally thought that she might have been unfaithful while on holiday and had came out and asked her but she said she hadn't and I asked one of her friends and she confirmed it. I'm inclined to beleive her since she's never tried anything like this in the past.
Last night I was over at our house watching tv when a break started she turned off the tv and said we had to talk. She started crying and I realised what she was planning to say. She said her feelings had changed for me and that it would be better if we stopped seeing each other. I told her that I understood, gave her a hug then left.
The problem is I'm still in love with her, I'd went through stages of changed feelings for her last year but my original feelings always returned after a week or so. I wrote her a letter explaining my feelings on what had happened and how i'd felt similar previously but it had returned.
I haven't told her that I wouldn't mind us taking a break for a while to see if that helps but I dont like the thought of losing her forever. Should I tell her that or just wait to see if she maybe realises that herself?