How young is "too young"?

[girl68]

Screw your rule, I'm not taking you off my bucket list :-D

bucket list?

[Illusional]

it's only "too young" when you worry what others will think of you. if you don't, then date whoever the hell you want because you are the one that will ultimately end up with whomever you choose.

raverboy

[Illusional]

bucket list?

bucket list... the list of things that you want to do before you kick the bucket.. ie, death.

raverboy

[Lipp]

bucket list... the list of things that you want to do before you kick the bucket.. ie, death.

raverboy

[Primo]

:-D

I'm not into Jack Nicholson or Morgan Freeman territory, but I'm making allowances for g68 sifting throug her "boyfriends" "beer buddies" and "dance partners" till she gets to the end of the rainbow. She might be too old for me by then I reckon :-/ :-)

[girl68]

^is that a jab at me Primo? I'm hardly shifting through. I'm merely living a great life not couped up at home just 'cause I'm in love.

[Primo]

^is that a jab at me Primo?

It's affectionate sarcasm with a hint of teasing mixed in, that's all :-)

[bluesummer]

I'm just shy of 30, and if one of my guy friends brought home a 21 year old, I'd assume he was having an early mid-life crisis.

Besides, my experience with 21 year olds dating older men is usually that they all think they're "so much more mature" than everyone else their age....and they try to prove it by dating older. But really they're not, since they all think the same thing. Then they get all freaked out when the older guys start talking about settling down.

[girl68]

I was 21 when my guy met me, he was 30. Sure I was a little immature, sure I played a game or 2. But when push came to shove I realized he was exactly what I wanted. I grew up WITH him. And neither of us hesitates to talk future, albeit I'm now 25.