keep it simple
Self-esteem isn't bragging about how great you are. It's more like quietly knowing that you're worth a lot (priceless, in fact!). It's not about thinking you're perfect — because nobody is — but knowing that you're worthy of being loved and accepted.
"Me, I try to send this note
float it like a paper boat
But paper sinks
and words are weak
i try, but i cant speak"
I don't understand what the issue was with dating her. Aren't you a teacher? And this was involving your coworkers client? (would that be a student?) and anyway, it's not YOUR "client" or coworker.
I don't see a big deal with your not being interested, but seriously, for a guy who claims to be interested in finding a woman, you sure seem to spend a lot of time making up excuses to not date one.
If a rule says "no fraternization" then you recommend violating the policy and seeing what happens, huh? If one worked for nearly 25 years to make it to the top of the heap, you'd recommend risking it all for tiny bit of pink?
I'm surprised to see an American woman suggest this route.
Hey, if you've got it, flaunt it.
My point was more or less that you can't miss it, so it's not like these men should've had any question over whether or not I am single. Actually, one male client actually pointed the ring out, and then asked me out for drinks. when I turned him down he said "Oh, well I know why. You've chosen to walk in the shadow of a man for the rest of your life."
Obviously he was a winner.
CAM, if it wasn't your client though.....I don't see the problem, unless she was a client of a co-worker that you do a lot of work together with, and could possibly have an interest in her dealings.
Live as if you were to die tomorrow. Learn as if you were to live forever. - Mohandas Gandhi
I can totally see why cam doesnt want to and shouldnt, date her.
It adds too much complication if you split. Its just not worth it.
Life is not measured by the number of breaths we take, but by the moments that take our breath away.
just admit that you dont like the girl. If you like her, i dont think you could hold yourself together to say that
keep it simple
Self-esteem isn't bragging about how great you are. It's more like quietly knowing that you're worth a lot (priceless, in fact!). It's not about thinking you're perfect — because nobody is — but knowing that you're worthy of being loved and accepted.
"Me, I try to send this note
float it like a paper boat
But paper sinks
and words are weak
i try, but i cant speak"
I like her. I admire her intelligence. I actually developed an erection while I spoke with her the first time we talked. I have popped a boner on first meeting a woman since I was in my early 20's. Fortunately, I was standing behind a podium after a talk and she didn't see me below the waist
I won't date her. Rules are rules.
Should have said, "haven't popped a boner" typo.
she sounds crazy anyway.
Work like you don't need the money. Love like you've never been hurt. Dance like nobody's watching
It's kinda gross she's throwing herself at you, but I could also see it as flattering if she's not a slutty girl. She's definitely trouble, at least possible trouble. If you're paranoid don't do it.