My next door neighbor who is a good friend of mine is still married but has broken up with her husband a few weeks ago. I would come over to talk with her but the situation is going where I don't want to travel. I told her that I just wanted to be friends but I am not ready for a serious relationship and that she is still married to him. She asked me last night if I would sleep with her. I am not comfortable with this despite her being attractive...I just can't do this. I haven't been in a serious relationship in almost 4 years and I'm not about to start right now....that goes for all women. The fact that she is married is still a problem for me. I will not kiss or have sex with her. I do not want to lose her as a friend because we've know each other for a long time but I want to be polite about telling her about not wanting a relationship. She's been giving me hints here and there that she likes me. It's moving way to fast for me. I just can't do it. I need to take a step back from her. Any suggestions??