How long did it take for you and your GF/BF to first get intimate?

[Wiredbomb0]

Well, my girlfreind and I are planning 'to get intimate' in a few weeks time, and by that time, we'll have been going out for 5 months. She's been wanting to have sex with me since we first started going out. Not sure if that's a good thing or not?

As for other things (like going down on each other, etc), we pretty much got straight into that on the days when I would go to her house.

dewilliams2, I agree with you; I don't really like the idea of 'getting some' on the first night; to me, sex is something more then just a physical release but something more emotional. I guess I'm just old-school lol!

[bfgfquestion]

you people are animals!

(in a freaky good way)

I'm positive the waiting will be worth it for me.

[Cbrider]

My husband got his hand down my pants on our first date. We had full-on sex on our second date. He's always just brought out the ho in me.

Your husband is a hero in a lot of ways. Lmao.

2 weeks. As of late.....the first date :-)

[Kaius]

It all depends on where you are in life. For 1st timers, it will take longer because there is much to fear and consider.
For mature adults like me, we do it when it feels right.

[mikechudej]

2nd date was the longest for me.

Just relax, don't ever think about bedding her.

Shift your perspective to pleasuring her like --> you would want to have this attitude in your mind "her happiness is your no. 1 goal"

[mings]

I like the article, but that from the article I know maybe we can be good friends.

[Doc Durian]

It all depends on where you are in life. For 1st timers, it will take longer because there is much to fear and consider.
For mature adults like me, we do it when it feels right.

Too right.

I've never been too hung up about when it happens.... it just does, when it's ready. Some of my most sexual moments in a new relationship were when we hadn't yet had actual sex.... and then others, when we did right from the start.

These things happen in due course.

If you're interested in the other, you're just happy to spend time with them. Anything else is an extension of that feeling.... and once in a blue moon, we're taught that we've met our match..

I'm still looking for mine.

[mings]

I appreciate your point of view.