So to boil it down I met a woman a few weeks ago online. We chatted for a couple of weeks then one evening I spontaneously invited her out for drinks. We hit it off FAST. Sparks flew and before I knew it she was bringing up the dorky topics I am passionate about but try to stay away from on first dates... Weird thing was she is drop dead gorgeous as well... Score?
After a bit to much to drink we wind up in-front of a fireplace at a nice restaurant just kinda gentle kissing and talking. We get back to her place and by that point were both pretty pass out drunk. She all of a sudden becomes emotional saying its been a long time since shes been out on a goodt date with a good "man" as she put it. Then began crying over something then calmed down and got frisky. I let her know I wasn't into that on a first date...(I liked this girl).. and we just kinda spent the night holding each other talking till morning. I felt a connection. Following afternoon we met , hung over as hell, for lunch and it was pretty comfortable. I paid and she was very womanly and sweet, holding onto my arm like a lady. We hung out at her place for a few hours and it was just... SOOO comfortable. She told me all about her family and folks. I told her about mine. She really wants to meet my sister.
Since then we've somehow fallen into this text each other once a day thing... Her texts are almost always the same "Hey sorry I didn't reply earlier. I was doing *blank* How are you?" To which I reply but usually don't get a reply back for a day or so. Called her last week and we talked for a while. She said she had to go babysit her sisters dog at her place about 20mils north of where we live but "Might be able to break way for a few this weekend" (lastweekend)... I haven't heard from her since a text last Thursday night. Called her tonight no answer...
Was I just an emotional tampon for her? Is this a game she is playing? Has she lost interest already? Am I suppose to be more aggressive? Whats the deal?