Nice woman but naughty behind closed door.

[WorkInProgress]

Has anyone ever experienced this?

I dated the proverbial "nice woman" for three months. She has never done drugs, does not drink, does not smoke, lives a clean and healthy life for the most part. She dresses very conservatively, and in the winter wears a lose sweaters to hide her ample assets.

So I meet her, she is shy which was kool because I can be shy at first too, she was sweet kind and caring... a nice woman. I go for women that have the girl next door look to them, so she was not a Barbi doll. She thinks she is not good looking but I was immensely attracted to her.

So anyway she was a nice woman in public but when we went into her bedroom and closed the door... WOW, a fearless sexual vixen came out and she rocked my world! Now I am fearless in bed too so we were an amazingly perfect match... its just that she surprised the heck out of me because I assumed a woman who looked and acted like the proverbial nice girl would not be such a sexual dynamo. This woman fulfilled no less then six of my sexual fantasy's!

Sadly I ended up leaving her recently for issues not related to sex, and personally I think she ruined me for all other women, because if the next woman I end up in bed with is any less adventuress that this woman... I fear I will be bored in bed!

So guys, do not pass by the meek, shy, nice girls... for they just may surprise you in the end!

[LailaK]

This is not as uncommon as you think, dude. Haven't you heard of the phrase "A lady in the streets and a freak in the sheets..."

You need to listen to more Ludacris.

[sookie6]

It's a shame you didn't work out???

This made for a great match!!!

Why did you end it? Can you rekindle the relationship?

[Gigabitch]

In my personal, hetero female opinion, that is the hottest kind of woman. Those poor slutty girls running around in skimpy clothing all over town showing off the goods just don't have a clue what they're doing.

[sookie6]

In my personal, hetero female opinion, that is the hottest kind of woman. Those poor slutty girls running around in skimpy clothing all over town showing off the goods just don't have a clue what they're doing.

I completely agree with this. I think an overly sexual display is often mistaken with a women being great in bed...when in fact NOT....slutty looking girls are just wanting the attention so very unlikely they will give you some...

It's very much the same for men. It's not the best looking and 6 pack built men that are the greatest in bed...but I guess we work that one out very early us girls...

You'll find many girls turned off by men who loves themselves too much..

[asdfg789]

In my personal, hetero female opinion, that is the hottest kind of woman. Those poor slutty girls running around in skimpy clothing all over town showing off the goods just don't have a clue what they're doing.

In my personal, hetero male opinion, i agree to the above

It can be fun getting a free show from the skimpily dressed sluts, but i will not touch them with a 10-foot pole.

[Gigabitch]

You'll find many girls turned off by men who loves themselves too much..

It's true. It's the guys who are losing their hair and don't look like Keanu Reeves who really try harder. The Keanu-looking guy I dated in the past SUCKED in bed. Why? Because he felt that just showing up was enough.

Wrong.

"Sexy-looking" hottie girls who look like they're about to bend over the nearest table and take on anyone who glances at them are the same. There's nothing sexier than a woman who has the confidence to respect herself.

[qwertz]

The girls that feel the need to show off almost every inch of their body and act like sluts in public are trying to make up for what they lack in the bedroom.

[dewilliams2]

I pretty much love these types of women...I tend to go after nice girls for the most part anyways and am disappointed when they are still nice girls in the bedroom...its always great to find one that isn't.

[Kaius]

This may sound strange...but all of the virgins I have ever been with, except my ex-wife, were extremely adventurous in the bedroom.
Sadly, my ex-wife was not. I tend to go for the innocent good girl, as I am turned off by slutty ones.
My current love is a very conservative-looking mom.... You can tell she has Barbie's assets, but she choose to dress like a mom.
But OMG she is so wild in bed! Hence our 4-hour sessions.... I think she drains me literally...but I like it.

[lahnnabell]

That reminds me of this MILF that used to come into my place of work a WHILE back. She would wear plain v-neck t-shirts. Something sporty and fun, but still mom-worthy. Not a baby-tee that says "JUICY" (like some mom wanna-be 16 year olds). Her hair had a medium length, layered cut and she kept her makeup simple. She exuded confidence when she talked. Ugh. She was hot.

[lahnnabell]

My boyfriend always said the same, that he despised women who showed to much skin. He said he prefers a woman to wear something that might contour her body and show off her curves as opposed to cleavage that's spilling out, or an overexposed stomach.

I agree and I personally keep my wardrobe full of soft fabrics 'cause I want to feel comfortable and I want the man holding me to be comfortable too.

[Kaius]

I think it's super sexy for a woman to reserve the sexy stuff for her man only.
My love does exactly that, and I totally appreciate it. She shows no skin at all even though her body is amazing (think Linda Hamilton in T2, with naturally ample bussom).
She wears a blouse that shows cleavage, and covers it with a knit top. She removes the knit top only when we are sitting close together, so only I have the view.
OMG she is so good to me I am soooo lucky.
Last week when we went on holiday, our hotel room had a super large mirror next to the bed. We took turns watching.... like a porno. hahahahhaha

[WorkInProgress]

This is not as uncommon as you think, dude. Haven't you heard of the phrase "A lady in the streets and a freak in the sheets..."

You need to listen to more Ludacris.

lol. No I had not heard that saying, but it applies to my experience to a tee. I hope it is not uncommon for nice gals to be bad girls in bed. Gives me hope. Sex is not everything, but really good sex sure don't hurt!

[WorkInProgress]

It's a shame you didn't work out???

This made for a great match!!!

Why did you end it? Can you rekindle the relationship?

We are exploring the friends option. IMO she avoids confrontation and thus does not want to talk about anything other than happy thoughts. Makes it impossible to work through problems. So perhaps friends will work well... if we go this route. Both of us are really hurt, so not getting my hopes up. But I think the world of her... good woman.