Does this mean chances are he's being unfaithful

[AJ100]

1. carrying condoms in his wallet
2. having 3 condoms in his wallet and now only one
3. never lets his cell phone out his sight - ever
4. Cagey when replying to text messages, makes sure I can't see
5. Never looks at his emails when I'm around
6. clears history on lap top without fail
7. registered with NSA sex sites.
8. posted ads on swinging websites/sex personals
9. very subtle change in his body language
10. unusually overly affectionate and loving

Thoughts welcome before I confront the situation.

Thanks in advance.

[Gigabitch]

Oh, for God's sake.

[xxazurexx]

Talk about being naive or what....lol

It doesn't get any more clearer than this sweetie.

[RdHrshyKss]

yikes, confront that cheater ASAP

[vashti]

lol

Why would you bother even confronting the obvious? Are you planning on giving him the opportunity to lie to you about it?

[bah]

I don't know. Have you walked in on him yet? LOL. Meaning, uh...yeah. I would have flipped after #8.

[xxazurexx]

I personally would have confronted him and flipped at no.1 :p
And if condoms were not the norm for me and him.

And the unusually loving and over affectionate behaviour, can be a sign of guilt and especially if he isn't usually that way.

I remember my ex H buying me a bunch of flowers (which he'd never done before) and saying he loved me one day. The next day he walked out and to be with another woman. lol. I can laugh about it now because it was years ago and I'm over it...

No man would be able to pull the wool over my eyes anymore.

[Kaius]

Just walk away. He's not worth your time or conversation.

[carl1222]

This post HAS to be a joke, right?

[VincenzoG91]

1. carrying condoms in his wallet No (unless he knows you're on the pill)
2. having 3 condoms in his wallet and now only one Yes
3. never lets his cell phone out his sight - ever Definitely
4. Cagey when replying to text messages, makes sure I can't see Definitely
5. Never looks at his emails when I'm around Maybe
6. clears history on lap top without fail Maybe (or else he is visiting some really nasty porn sites)
7. registered with NSA sex sites. Probably
8. posted ads on swinging websites/sex personals Definitely
9. very subtle change in his body language Doubtful
10. unusually overly affectionate and loving Maybe

[SirWagginston]

Seriously? He's registered on NSA sex websites, and that's not obvious?

[AJ100]

Thanks for the responses.

I only just found all this out over the last couple One discovery led to another to another and so on.

I'm heart broken, we've been together for 7 years. In my head and heart I really knew the obvious, but wanted to check as it's so hard to believe that someone could be so cruel. After all this time he isn't the man I thought I knew. I feel like such a fool!

Its time to make an appointment with the STD clinic and lawyer.

[ftm]

I know to all of us this seems painfully obvious, but I can see why the OP had to come here and run it by us. When in a situation like this it's normal to want to believe that it's all a misunderstanding and the worst case scenario isn't really what's going on.

Good luck to you. Make sure you have documentation of the online transgressions. You'll need it for your divorce.