hi guys, my new partner of 5mnths has already got a son he's 4 an my partner is 21 over the past 5 mnths all i keep hearing from him is 'he is better off without me' talking about his son, i know this is total crap but why do men think like this? is it to hard for him to accept that his son needs him? his son lives 4 hours away from my partner so communication is hard an the ex gf is so bitter towards my partner i dont know how to tell my partner tht he is makin the biggest mistake of his life by tryin to get his son out of his life. can anyone help?