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    Because they want you to chase after them. they feel wanted that way -_0

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    ^^ That might be what a woman would do, but a guy would probably do it just because he doesn't care anymore.

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    man or woman thats still F*$@ed up to leave without a word. the only time it would be okay would be if the relationship was abusive. Otherwise a txt saying bye bitch or something

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    Quote Originally Posted by bloodtippedrose View Post
    Because they want you to chase after them. they feel wanted that way -_0
    seriously, i don't think thats the reason..

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    Honestly, sometimes when I'm done using a girl for sex I just don't feel like dealing with the tears or the anger. That shit gives me a headache.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Gribble View Post
    Honestly, sometimes when I'm done using a girl for sex I just don't feel like dealing with the tears or the anger. That shit gives me a headache.
    Sorry, but that's a pretty lame excuse. If all you wanted was sex, you should tell the girl beforehand instead of being a jerk and leaving out of nowhere.

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    How many girls do you think would have anything to do with a guy if he openly admitted to only wanting sex?
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    Quote Originally Posted by Gribble View Post
    How many girls do you think would have anything to do with a guy if he openly admitted to only wanting sex?
    It's all in the way you do it.

    If you're good, you can get a woman on board with the idea of 'amazing sex only' quite easily.

    If not, you just manipulate her into thinking you care, use her, then dump her.

    Based on your post above, option #2 is your best friend.

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    There are quite a lot of girls who just want the same thing, you know.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Gribble View Post
    How many girls do you think would have anything to do with a guy if he openly admitted to only wanting sex?
    as a girl... =0 i'm very conservative and i really dislike your way of asking for sex. hahaha.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Gribble View Post
    Honestly, sometimes when I'm done using a girl for sex I just don't feel like dealing with the tears or the anger. That shit gives me a headache.
    What goes around comes around...this sorta behaviour will backfire on you one day.
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    It's just plain simpler to view the world as black and white rather than probabilistic shades of gray.

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    I'd assume he'd done it and because he didn't have the balls to come clean and tell me it's over.

    I loathe that people can't be honest!

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    I don't know why but I have seemed to attract a lot of nuts when it comes to girlfriends.
    Some girls are very good at crying, its usually used as a tool to make the guy feel guilty. In my experience anyway. I don't want to label all women like this because I suppose there are genuine instances of being hurt and crying

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    Quote Originally Posted by roy_delene View Post
    I don't know why but I have seemed to attract a lot of nuts when it comes to girlfriends.
    Some girls are very good at crying, its usually used as a tool to make the guy feel guilty. In my experience anyway. I don't want to label all women like this because I suppose there are genuine instances of being hurt and crying
    so... are you saying that you would leave simply because you don't want her to make you feel guilty?

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    Quote Originally Posted by Butter View Post
    so... are you saying that you would leave simply because you don't want her to make you feel guilty?
    No I'm not saying that. I'm saying that leaving without saying why is wrong. I'm saying that some women use crying to manipulate people.
    I have gotten over people making me feel guilty,well almost over it. My kids are good at making me feel guilty but women aren't. I think I just opened up a big can of worms here

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