Guys, I'm just wondering do you find handjobs pleasurable?
I gave my bf a handjob for the first time other night and he told me that it takes a while for him to c** when getting one - is that normal or was it just that I wasn't doing it right??
Guys, I'm just wondering do you find handjobs pleasurable?
I gave my bf a handjob for the first time other night and he told me that it takes a while for him to c** when getting one - is that normal or was it just that I wasn't doing it right??
I think it's normal. If you think about it compared to a blow job or penetration the penis is not thrusting into anything wet and warm...unless you spit on your hand all the time
So it would take more time for someone to come especially since visually it's not much of a turn on for a man...a hand job is usually only a starter for more...
Depends on the guy too...
You're probably not doing it right. Think about it he's been stroking his own penis for a long, god know how long time. He is the ONLY person who knows how to do it just right, therefore anyone else isn't doing it quite right. But that don't mean is doesn't feel damn good.
A tip though is whip out the lube or spit and use plenty of it.
girl68 has some good suggestions. For what it's worth, guys don't generally have much enthusiasm for a hand job. They can do that for themselves, and it feels like a consolation prize compared to intercourse or even a blow job.
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But he can't do his own facial expressions and moan and give him eye contact and tease himself... and if he does- that's just weird.
Don't waste your time with a handjob...you do actually like the guy right?
Maybe my guys abnormal but he loves his handjobs. I'm enthusiastic to give them to. My mouth gets WAY more tired much quicker than my hand. So I'm not wasting his or my time.
I like giving my bf handies nonchalontly and unexpectedly like at the movies or a footie under the table at a restaurant.
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Have him spit on your hand and use that to give him a hand job. Kiss him while doing it. Maybe that will make him "get there" faster.
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Handjobs are fun, but like a lot of people here have said, its damn hard for the girl to get confidently good at it. We have been giving ourselves hand jobs since as early as we are 5 or 6 (at least me ), and when a girl tries, it normally lacks the finesse and enthusiasm.
That said, it can still be hot. What I find REALLY hot, is a hand job... but with some tongue action on the side, Mmmmmmmmmmm