Hey i'm new here.
Browsing the forums i have seen some similar situations to what i am in. Basically i have finally come to compromise what exactly i have to do. This forum has shed a new light on me and given my plenty insight into relationships, i have to ever enter a relationship but i'm in no rush at all.
Basically i'll tell you the background. I started college and i became good friends with this girl. She told me she really really liked me even though she had a bf. Eventually we started making out and this occurred for some 4 months, now back then i didn't think much of it. Mainly because i liked this girl and she was attractive, fun to be with and meant a lot to me. All her emotions flowing onto me was a bit much, i did before we made out try to stop and have a break and gather my thoughts, be she got really upset. She was going to break up with her bf but didn't because i didn't tell her i liked her. So anyway she eventually decided to stay with her bf after 4 months of making out. I was strong took the decision and stayed with her as a friend. I was strong i had to be i sat next to her in every lesson and talked to her on msn constantly. Over the last few months over friendship went up and down and we still liked each other until she stopped liking me, i have no idea why but i still like her. But i found out she was telling me she liked me because her relationship wasn't great and stuff.
Now after all this about 10 months down the line of our friendship i still do like her, but reading through the threads i've come to realise i'm getting out. There's no point in continuing this friendship when i only put the effort it. It truly hurts me when i still put the effort in, she doesn't understand how mentally strong i have to be to stay a friend with her. After choosing her bf and sitting next to her 5 days a week for 6 months is tough and staying on msn is tough, i did forgive her. But i just don't think there's any point anymore, she doesn't understand what i've been through, she doesn't seem to care anymore. So i'm finally closing the door and focusing on my life and try and have a good summer, do you think this is the right thing? Or do you think i should stick by her as a friend?