ok so its been a year since me and my ex broke up and i still havent been able to move on. every-time i think i am sweet i find out something new about her or see something i dont wanna see, most recently for example her new guy friend is over all the time, going to family functions ect basically filling my spot lol. We still talk and she says its not her bf but hes just helping her cope with everything. She still cries on occasion when i see her and breaks down and wants to just hug me, i think thats the worst part about it is that i know she still loves me and we openly say it to each other every now and then.
I broke the trust we had for 4 years, thats why we broke up. But i have done all i can to mend it. What are some harsh moves i can make to move past her?
Because short of finding someone who makes me forget about her (which would be so hard) i cant see any light at the end of the tunnel. Everytime i meet someone i constantly compare, and its driving me crazy trying to fit this template.
I know sometimes trust can never be mended and there may be nothing but time to heal. But its ruining my everyday. I have hobbies and i work full time so i have plenty of things to keep my mind off it but it doesn't help.
Has anyone done anything thats helped them? or can you offer any advice for my situation?
thanks