My relationship is on the rocks... real bad place right now.
First question-- My friend who happens to be my boyfriends-best friends-girlfriend told me about three months ago that her boyfriend informed her that my guy had hooked up with a girl from his work--AT work. Anyways i confronted him and he quickly let me know that it was a lie--a story to make his friend jealous because his friend thought the girl was hot---long story short I don't think he's telling me the truth. He and this girl have conversations late at night and when I'm at class during the day. They seem to know when EXACTLY to talk. He swears that it's all work related that they are just talking corporate gossip. Again. I don't believe him. What's the deal, am I paranoid like he says I am?
Second Question: He's begged me to move in with him for over four years now. I finally did and all he ever does is talk about marriage, kids, and having a big farm house someday for us as a family. Why would he be so full speed ahead for that life when he hides and lies about so much? Also, if he wants a family so bad why does he seem to think that privacy of bills, cell phones, calls, texts, and emails are still so private? Is this normal for a guy? He hates it when i touch his phone and when i caught him trying to hide one of another girls calls and demanded for his phone records he flew off the chart because I was crossing the line. Am I really crossing the line when my guy/ whom i live with and share everything with is hiding from me?
Third Question: Is this even worth trying to save? And if I even can, how do I do it?