my girlfriend always have these expectations of me, how often I call, how to interact with other females, telling her my whereabouts and stuff.
but growing up, these were not really expected of me from my family. they trusted me to go out and not have to call them every 2 hours. we don't have a constant calling ordeal when I'm at school.
she does in her family, and then she expect from me what her parents expect from her.
but I can't do the same, because I don't expect those things from her. like if she went out with her friends I call she doesn't pick up, I don't care, I don't EXPECT her to pick up her phone while out. she does with me.
how do I deal with this when its like, she has all these expectations of me while I have so little of her.
this leads to me ALWAYS being on the bad side of any argument, where I almost NEVER voice my displeasures because I never have any.
anyone else in this boat?