the mistake

[w0nder]

this is not unconditionnal, stop to deny what people think, don't know you anymore since 5 years now and don't want simply becuz don't like who you became and what you did during this years.then go, by mind or lies, whatever. I'm not an actor and big enough to say when I don't appreciate someone and his way to act and his life he put in scene trying to maintain a reject. that's all

[girl68]

It should be clear to you now, that how you showed her love wasn't the way she wanted to FEEL loved. Compliments and affection only work on girls who need compliments and affection perhaps your gf wants act of service or small meaningful gifts to show her you loved her. You were just mismatched in showing her the way she needed.

[w0nder]

I came to meet, you choose the easier escape it seems to be for you and never forget to cry the past, I decide to leave, in facts, and gestures
the advice was to forget the obsession, you refuse, hurt you alone

the time is lost only when you have sthg new to declare, you've followed from far and never listen, you pay. this is end

[w0nder]

porque sobretodo, jamas avanzar es tu linea para no cambiar. perdon si cada uno tiene su pasado y su historia, perdon, pero los quienes conocen el mas d ela vida jamas olvidan quien solo cree ser el padron, que se establece para ocupar y que Jamas restablece verdad, y justicia, una vez mas en actos. y los otros, pertenecen interamente al real, forman parte de los vivientes, y tienen moral como basa, que no necesita repetir
adios

[eljusticiero67]

WHOA- it is NOT SELFISH to go explore (with other men and women). For you to claim that is stupidity on your part. She is soo damn young (you too) to put all your eggs in this one relationship basket. You BOTH need to know if there's something better or at least a better match for you as you grow and change. If she comes back after being with another guy the choice is yours forget about her past take her back in whole or NOT forget and DON'T take her back. Her choice to leave was her choice, don't you dare shame her for that. She will have to face the fact if she comes running back. Until then GET BUSY.

I dont know i think this is just a matter of perspective. i grew up thinking about treating people with respect and dignity. and i feel that when you are in a long-term relationship you have a responsibility to the other person. i understand that if the other person is unhappy or there are serious doubts then there may be a need for breaking things off. but NOT without talking about the problems first, giving the other person an idea that this is whats happening, and thinking about it long and hard etc. again, we went from being 100% normal and happy to broken up in 3 weeks-- and the weekend she came, I expected to be a normal weekend for us instead she completely suddenly and unexpectedly breaks up with me.

and i know talking about this in a place called "the love forum" i dont expect people to agree with me 100% on dealing with a relationship in a pragmatic way, BUT

there is just something wrong with that kind of behavior. plain and simple.

[eljusticiero67]

porque sobretodo, jamas avanzar es tu linea para no cambiar. perdon si cada uno tiene su pasado y su historia, perdon, pero los quienes conocen el mas d ela vida jamas olvidan quien solo cree ser el padron, que se establece para ocupar y que Jamas restablece verdad, y justicia, una vez mas en actos. y los otros, pertenecen interamente al real, forman parte de los vivientes, y tienen moral como basa, que no necesita repetir
adios

i only now understood all what you were saying wonder... it was quite beautiful. i will move on. thank you for your profound words.