Hey
I've been with my girlfriend for 6 months and we both love each other a lot. I think she's great and have no problems with her at all. Here's my huge problem: she's out of town for a couple weeks, and last night I went out to a bar with a female friend of mine. We were just there as friends and I had no intention of making any moves/accepting any move being put on me. We both drank way too much and neither of us even remember leaving the bar. The next thing either of us remembers is both of us waking up in my bed naked. I can only assume that we had some drunken sex.
Here's the question: would it be a good idea to tell my girlfriend about this, or would it do more good just not to say anything? If I don't tell her and she finds out that would be bad, but if I tell her and she reacts really badly, that's also bad. I don't remember anything about how it happened and neither does my friend! Does that fact help at all in my girlfriend not breaking up with me? I feel really guilty and want to be honest with her, but I don't want to hurt her anymore than I have to. I also really don't want her to break up with me, even though maybe I deserve it. I'm really not the cheating kind of guy, and I feel really horrible.
Also, I didn't find a used condom wrapper anywhere, so I have to go get an STD test now...but if I don't get the results back before she get's back to town, I'll be forced to tell her, because we don't use condoms and I couldn't put her at risk like that. Does anyone know how long STD results take to get back? I really screwed up...what should I do???
Thanks