Understood. I really enjoy your advice and talking to you
You always have things to say that make me feel a lot better. I'm new to all this, so very very confused.
So at this point, its not good for me even to text and say hi? Why not? Does that make him feel like he has the power, and i'm not over him, and push him further away? i feel like he's forgetting me. He never makes first contact anymore. After a month of no contact, last week I broke it to ask him a quick question about a school-related thing, and then said bye. He then continued and started questioning me about my life and whats new with me over and over again even though I was avoiding the questions. Was he just being polite and keeping the conversation going, or did he feel bad for what he did to me, or is he genuinely curious? He has had some moment of weaknesses when we were broken up but still talking...where he would ask to come over. But in the past month of no contact, he has never slipped up once and made first contact. I never want him to forget me...I always want some part of him to miss me even though I know I'll never date him again.
I hope you don't think I'm dwelling on this too much or overanalyzing. I really do live my life right now as much as I can
You just seem to be a good listener going through the same things...so I'm just getting out everything that's on my mind so I don't text these questions to him instead.
Thanks for all your help!!