my ex dumped me 2 weeks ago and has not called me, our releationship was very strong , we said we loved eachother every day, saw each other a lot, we played together and had soo much fun and enjoyed one anothers company very much, we were close to each others families and always talked about the future, but there ws one bad thing, we fought all the time and she gave up on me and called it quits, i take a lot of blame because i know i didnt try to make it better and i was frustrated with her and the fighting the last 2 weeks of the relationship. every one around us saw that we were very affectionate and close , what they did not see was the arguing, i asked her to give me nother chance ad she said she was perpared for me to want her back and made her deision final and that there was nothing to think about when i suggested just having a break while i wor on mysef. i thought for sure since we talked every single day that she wouldnt be able to help but to call me at night and talk but she hasent, i know she is moving on and i am too, i have to because i want her back and i cant unless i make changes which i truly am already,
my issue is i want to get back in her life, even as friends so she can see i am becoming a better person and making positive changes and real efforts to ensure i wont make the same mistakes.... but how do i tell her this, or show her this if she wont call.
i have been told wait no loonger than a month to call but dont talk about feelings or the past relationship, instead show her the guy she fell in love with again, take her out, have fun, i want to do this but i have to be able to talk to her for a while then eventually see her again. i know for sure that i dont want another woman in my life, i have thought about wether or not its worth trying to get her back and the point is that we had something true and special and i know she thinks that too but she just gave up, is a woman that gave u on me worth trying to get back, i think so but thats because i love her so much .
i want to know if i should wait another 2 or 3 weeks before calling to try to get an outing or can i call now and start the conact again or is it too soon , ? my friend is fixing her i phone from before we broke up so i have to give it to her sometime . would it be wise to give it to her after the one month of no contact and just make the meeting short n sweet and then try to see her again later one, need advice on how to get back in her life ? i really miiss her and how do i knw if she even misses me yet , ?