K well I been with this girl for about a year and a half. She broke up with me in October for some immature reason. So basically during that time in October, she told me to move on which i started doing, so I stopped calling her, deleted her off facebook and then we decided to study together because we have the same course in college. After that she started calling me all the time and I was at the point in my life where i didn't care if she called me or talked to me. She clung on and i went along with it and we got reattached. We never offically got back together but it was like we were, I mean having sex, talking on the phone all the time, seeing eachother all the time. She knows how I am and i'm not the type to use a girl for anything and i won't have no fling but she said she doesn't want a relationship she not ready.
Sorry this is long but this is where it begins, So we were acting like we were together and everything was great, then new years eve came. We talked and kissed eachother and she told me she loves me and all that jazz. Then she went out clubbing with her cousin and she meets some random guy that picks her up. She always told me she would never talk to a guy from a club, she ignores guys who pick her up in general. So this was a shocker. I talked to her on Janurary 2nd, and everything went downhill, she told me to move on and she admitted that she is talking to this guy now and they like eachother. In just one night she changed so much.
Today is my birthday, she called me in the morning to wish me happy birthday and i asked her to hang out for some coffee, she said no she can't she has a date with the same guy. Why would she tell me that? Couldn't' she just be like she has plans. We spoke today and i told her that I do miss her and that I don't care anymore and I dont have any feelings when i really do, but i just want to know why the sudden change. She said it was just that she was comfortable with me hence she lost her virginity to me and that during the time from october to now there was no emotional attachment, only physical. She said i sound like i've matured alot because i am taking this so well, she thought i would hate her and call her a s*** and what not. I gave her some advice and told her to be careful and be smart and not to just open your legs for any random guy, because i know how guys are and how they think i am one. She said he isn't like that, he hasn't tried anything yet he doesnt have time to f*** around and she started telling me about him and his life, so i stopped her and i said your personal life has nothing to do with me and i rather not know. She also told me that she did love me and that was true when we were together, but it started fading away because we fought alot. and she said knock on wood thank god she never had a broken heart.? WTF...
The thing is I HAVE ALL MY CLASSES WITH HER STARTING WEDNESDAY. I CAN'T CHANGE. I love her but i understand that i have to move on it's just that i am going to see her everyday and she will talk to me. I don't want to be immature and ignore her, but i don't want to get hurt in the process. We were really really really close, and this is a sudden change. Sorry for making this so long but please some advice/help on how to handle this situation!!! Thanks!