Hi i've recently had my 5 year anniversary with my girlfriend, thinking things between us were going fine. A week later after this she tells me that she feels the spark has gone in our relationship and she may not love me anymore. She said it may be a phase and suggested a break or time to think about her feelings for me. She did say that she felt the relationship was now getting serious and it's at the stage where we may spend our lives together.
I still love her and it's killing me waiting for her to decide on how she feels. I was just wondering if this could be a phase or if she really has fallen out of love with me? and if anyone has any suggestions on what I should do?
She has also suggested that we have a 2 week break from eachother, so she can have her 'freedom'. I understand that people need space and time but I am not keen on the idea of her seeing other guys. I was wondering if anyone has been through this 'break' and how did things turn out after, for better or for worse?
Thanks for letting me vent my concerns and I hope you'll give me some feedback on how to handle this!