I am involved in an 18 month relationship where both my partner and I love each other very much. I have no other wish than to make her happy, but I always end up making her upset. I am not talking about usual relationship bickering, I think I sometimes unintentionally make her depressed. I can tell that occasionally I can make her happy, but she always ends up being miserable. She tells me that she loves me, and I believe her, but I can’t stand how I am hurting her. I am afraid I am slowly killing the person I love. What should I do?