I broke up with my ex 3-4 months ago, it was ugly, and vicious. I found out she cheated on me, could not control myself (verbally) which triggered her to retaliate the same way. Hell rained down for the two of us and I made it a point to disappear from her, closed all contacts and even changed my number. We are not in the same state and she'd threatened to file harassment which both of us had reasonable evidence to do so but would not go as far to investigation as it didn't.
This gave me time to focus on more important things in life as I've been succeeding and I am better than I deserve at this point. Anyways, is it advised to initiate the 'better man' situation where I'd shoot a concise email to reaquire contact? As bitter as our breakup was I'm sure at times she is curious about me as I do her, as a person we had in our lives. By no means would this go beyond that.
Just a thought, I thought I'd get some input. Criticism, counsel, advice welcomed. thank you