Me and my partner are not a perfect match, we have a lot of problems between us, but are both wanting to get past them after a fight and breakup rocked us..
My problem is my partner is just acting horribly jealous. To the point of me wanting to scream at him. I am extremely stubborn and some of the time his wants and needs just dont seem too fair..
He is mad at me right now because he thinks I am too flirtacious with other men. I cannot see where he is coming from and am finding it so hard to keep him happy when i just seem to piss him off all the time with this issue.
We can go out with friends, and everything will be fine. I will talk to another man and he will lose it. I am a friendly person, always love to mingle and make new friends.. Its just who i am, i feel he wants me to be cold towards other men, but i just cannot act like that. I am the same with other women too its not just men.
What point is the line drawn from being friendly to being flirty?
That is my biggest question, the last time i went out i thought i was behaving fine and watched my every move just in case he would take it the wrong way, but the morning after he named off a few people i was too close with..
The reason i am asking is we are going out tonight with a group of single friends and couples.
I plan on showing it off that im with my partner by public affection and not touching another guy.. But he says its the way i 'look' at men. lol
At what point of him complaining should i say 'Okay shut up, i am not doing anything wrong'.. Thats what i feel like saying most of the time.
Just to add, i know its a problem and to alot of people doesnt seem worth sticking with him.. but i would like to know i have done everything possible to help us before leaving him for good. That way i can move on knowng i tried my best.