So I'm in a bit of a pickle with a girl im dating. We've been dating for 4 months now. And things were going super well. Very passionate relationship, kissing, hugging, etc.. Moving kinda fast...
So last night we go out drinking with some friends. Well I dont drink since im the DD. Anyways.. we are sitting there huggin, kissing and talking.. Having a good time. When she then tells me she loves me. We aren't even boyfriend/girlfriend yet. I asked to be boyfriend and girlfriend.. but she said she needs times).... when she tells me she loves me, it catches me WAY of guard... I don't know what to say.. So I stay quite... BIG mistakes.. She's under the influence and gets very emotional, starts ignoring me and making a scene.
So I take her home because she's pissed off. She then starts asking me why I didn't say "I love you" back... I told her that I wasn't expecting it and I wasn't ready for it... I panicked.. I do have a lot of feelings for her. I could see myself with her for a long time. I think I was falling for her...
When we get to her apartment she starts screaming, "get away from me!!, dissapear!!!!, lets just be friends!!" and starts to cry. Saying she hates expecting things from me and letting her guard down, and me letting her down...
I then calm her down, telling her that I am falling for her and I do really care for her and that I want a relationship with her. We hug, and booooom.... Gets super sexual, she's still kinda buzzed/drunk.. im not.. She wants to have sex..we havent had sex yet..and she's a virgin...I dont want to.. im sober and dont want to do this to her while she is intoxicated. It was hard to say no though ...So we fool around some and I leave..
We almost had sex, we told each other we cared for each other... everything great right?
ERRRRR!!! WRONG.. I meet up with her today at a festival.. I can see she's kinda ignoring me a bit.. I ask what is wrong.. She then tells me she doesn't want to see me for a month.. She needs to be alone to figure things out alone..she's having problems at work.. her family is in another country and she doenst know if she wants to move back.... she's scared that she's falling for me too fast...she said everything she said last night she truly meant.... blah blah blah... this come out of nowhere.. im pissed.. but agree to two weeks no contact.....
WTF?!? Is this normal? Why a month with no contact??? She trying to dump me nicely???l.. She has trusts issues.. she's been cheated on before...But im so lost.. Right now i say f*$CK it... im done with this.. 2 weeks??? Im not going to sit around and just wait for her....
Any comments or opinions? Should I just move on???