Had a girl I dated for about a month. Not a long time, but things were clicking fairly well and I was kind of bummed after she called it off. She asked we could be "just friends" and I mistakenly agreed - probably to appease her since I honestly thought I would not hear from her again. Big mistake on my part I agree No guy should accept the friend's zone after being dumped but thats just me.
Forward a week I get a text saying I was sweet and her flowers were dying I sent her then another text 3 days later saying happy b-day. Oh Boy! Just what I want to hear from a girl that just "dumped" me! I email her I apologized for agreeing to the friends thing and it was probably not a good idea to contact me unless she wanted to continue the road we were going down.....not a peep from her since.
Sending me texted after the fact is kinda of a distraction to me so I guess my question is : Why would anyone continue contact after they tell that person they dont want to date them again? A test? Immaturity? Did she actually think we would be friends and hang out? Just trying to find out the psychology of it all. BTW...were talking about a late 30s women here.....