Why life is bullshit

[SelflessnHumble]

You have trouble reading.

She's a woman, not her fault. She's at a disadvantage due to her complexity.
Anyway...what's really scary is that she is supposed nurse but I don't see it.

Nurses should be caring, loving and nurturing (by definition) not hurtful and angry.

[NearlyThere]

Someone needs to get laid and experience a little bit of pleasure.

So you think having sex will put everything right? I have no interest in women whatsoever. Women would have no interest in me.

Who cares if it’s not for eternity. I'm enjoying the moment.

If you care great, if you don’t great.

I care that it's not for eternity. I thought I made that obvious.

If you really don’t care kill yourself, there will be some that will miss you, some who feel sorry for you, some that hope to see you again, some that “know” that’s it, and some, well we didn’t care in the first place and you had no meaning to us.

I will kill myself. I don't care about the cunts I'll leave behind. I don't know many people, only family members, and I'm not close to any of them.

Whatever you chose to do is your choice alone.

I for one will be happy in the moment and enjoy life for its short and pleasurable to me.

That works for you. That's fine. To me, it's still worthless.

What do I care if the memory of that hug is eternal. I have it right now, I am enjoying the memory right this minute. And it makes me happy.

And eventually, you won't have it. How can you not care?

And I have not made much impact on the universe, but I have made a little. My little tiny contribution may not move mountains, but it's enough for me. What does it mean, to mean something? Mean something to who? Human beings mean something, mean everything, to me in this moment. Why does there need to be more for this moment to be real and good?

You've made an impact on your own life. Not on the universe.

There needs to be more because you will never have those memories forever.

Permanence isn't everything. If I am eating a wonderful steak, and it is big enough to fill my belly and cooked to perfection...why would I sit and whine that this delicious meal means nothing because it will come to an end? It means a good meal right now, or I could miss this moment while I worry about the time when this moment ends. I know before I begin making love that it will be over in an hour or 2, most likely. But that's an hour or two well spent, and I will sleep better for it and wake up with a smile on my face and maybe I will even smile at someone who is having a bad day tomorrow and make their day a little less bad. Every moment is ephemeral, as is life. But beautiful and worthwhile nontheless.

You're not understanding what I'm saying. The MEMORY of you eating that steak will come to an end. Everything comes to an end, I'm not denying that. The song we listen to, the book we read, the movie we watch... I'm talking about the memory.

And okay, if I'm wrong and there IS something after this... big deal? So what? I find it impossible to believe I'll be condemned because of the life I haven't lived.

And no, we don't end up in the same place no matter what.

I meant we all die. After death, is nothing. That's what I meant by 'we all end up in the same place'.

My father spent 70 miserable years on this planet, whining and waiting to die. He hurt people with his selfishness sometimes, but mostly he made very little impact on anyone. He died sad and lonely, he never made a positive contribution to this world, and when he was gone, it didn't matter much to anyone.

And if I stick around, that's how I'll turn out. That is why I will end it.

Maybe she went to heaven, maybe she was reborn an ant or something, maybe she just ceased to exist...but who cares?

Who cares? Don't you?

But for some reason...You *feel* that you hate everything.

Yes, I really do. My natural instinct is to always look at everything with disgust. I have seen the absurdity of life. It's not for me.

I suspect this has more to do with something that either happened or didn't go your way, which is a common theme in everyone's life.

A lot of self-loathing, which I've always had, has shaped the way I am today. I haven't dealt with any awful tragedies. I feel hollow. That's the way I've always felt. In truth, I can't put my finger on exactly what has made me the way I am.

One thing is for sure; I really do hate the outside world, and want absolutely nothing to do with it. I don't long for a life. I'm still sane after all the years of nothing (I'm 23 now). I desire nothing from life. There's nothing more to say.

[doppelgaenger]

You have a point. There are a few contradictions. I fantasize about killing. I won't ever do it. I will kill myself though. No food for the worms. I have made it very clear to my Mother I want to be cremated, then scattered.

You sound so pretentious.

[NearlyThere]

You sound so pretentious.

I wasn't going for that.

Your contributions are becoming increasingly more valuable, I have noticed.

[vashti]

You have trouble reading.

No, I dont. I read the first paragraph of your initial post, got irritated, then replied. I didn't care to read the rest of your mindless blabber.

[doppelgaenger]

I wasn't going for that.

Your contributions are becoming increasingly more valuable, I have noticed.

Yeah, this is a golden thread, why don't you waddle on over to the nearest publishing house and become the next millionaire.

But seriously, you give a title "life is bullshit" and you don't even talk about that - instead you talk about how you're a miserable antisocial who fantasizes about killing people, including your mother and yourself, and organizing terrorism. Not only that, but you're posting this on a website called Loveforum. What the fück are you thinking? There are at least a thousand other online communities full of people with the same bullshit pretenses you have. Go post your garbage thoughts on there if you want some kind of merit for them.

The nice thing about life is - true - it is not predefined. You gotta give your life its own meaning, and yeah, if you don't do that, you'll probably end up killing yourself and maybe even taking a few people with you. And the way you describe your own life - it is bullshit. So why don't you stop pussing around and do something about it, instead of whining like a baby?

[vashti]

She's a woman, not her fault. She's at a disadvantage due to her complexity.
Anyway...what's really scary is that she is supposed nurse but I don't see it.

Nurses should be caring, loving and nurturing (by definition) not hurtful and angry.

When you hold the hand of a young man who is dying (and not ready to go), and cry along with him at the unfairness of it all, you will come to resent little self-indulgant brats like the original poster, too. I'm not a psych nurse. I take care of people with REAL problems.

[Take2]

Don't I care where my great-grandmother is now? No, she is an angel in my heart no matter what, and she made this planet a little more like heaven while she was alive. If it turns out that is all there was, she did really well with what she had.

You know what, we are all a collection of the choices we make, a product of the lives we live. And there are some things that are true if you believe them. If you believe you are happy, you are, by definition. If you believe you are sad, you are, bt definition. Similarly, if you believe your life has meaning, it does, at least for you. If you believe your life is worthless BS, that is also true. But it doesn't have to be.

I understand that sometimes when you are down it is hard to care, and much easier to proclaim every life and even the whole universe total BS instead of working to make your own life NOT be total BS. But when you make that choice, you make yourself suffer needlessly RIGHT NOW and every moment you make that choice. And there is nobody else who can make the change, it's all on you to accept the misery you are dishing to yourself or reject it and either get some professional help or just find a way to start in a more productive lifepath. I think some part of you wants that, or you wouldn't be arguing the matter.

[NearlyThere]

No, I dont. I read the first paragraph of your initial post, got irritated, then replied. I didn't care to read the rest of your mindless blabber.

You cared enough to reply.

When you hold the hand of a young man who is dying (and not ready to go), and cry along with him at the unfairness of it all, you will come to resent little self-indulgant brats like the original poster, too. I'm not a psych nurse. I take care of people with REAL problems.

Lucky guy.

[NearlyThere]

Thanks everyone. I've actually taken a lot from this.

[Regnent]

Seriously?
It's your life. What are you expecting to get form here?
End it, live it, suffer it. It's yours, do with it as you please.

[ProveMeWrong]

Dating. Bullshit. All that effort, and you might not even get anywhere. And I'm not talking about sex.

Finally someone who speaks logic. Dating is bullshit, getting involved with women in general is bullshit.

Think you guys should stop mocking him and learn from him.

[DoesntMatter]

This thread is some good shit

[Petit Papillon]

This thread is some good shit

Naaah , I think there were better ones like that one by Elle "How good it is to be a slut and date only rich guys" or by Coco "My bf's penis is HUGE,my vagina is going to explode!"

[DoesntMatter]

lmao yeah those were good too. But this guy is str8 trollin newbies with 90% success