Why do i bother with her ?

[smackie9]

It's more like why does she bother with you? You chicken crapper....you had your chance to make a move on her and you didn't. So I can see why she got distance there....because she was taken back by the fact you didn't and she's thinking you don't find her attractive enough...you let her down man.

[bloodtippedrose]

since then neither has brought the what happened up, though we have talked about the night.

I wouldn't think about it too much. You guys had fun and cuddled, shouldnt be something you lose sleep over. Next time you have the opportunity to be at her place or yours then take it one step further and see how she reacts. She has to like you if she invited you over..