Hes slowly controlling me... help me!!

[reeba]

you want to stick it out so you don't feel like you wasted those 4 years?

so you want to waste the next year, or the next 5, or the rest of your life??????

just get out and start over while you are still young.

[fuggles0]

You seem pretty resentful that he spends his money on cars but not you. Of course it's about the money

no its about spending all his time on other things

you want to stick it out so you don't feel like you wasted those 4 years?

so you want to waste the next year, or the next 5, or the rest of your life??????

just get out and start over while you are still young.

no i want to work it out because i love him and i do want to be with him, im not just going to end it when i know things can be better

[VincenzoG91]

Do you love him for who he is? Or for who you think that he might become?

[hello1]

Stop being so stupid. Sometimes men can change but this guy obviously doesn't want too, its been FOUR YEARS. You two will break up, you will and its up too you if your going to waste the best years of your life with him or not.