Are Threesomes That Common?

[erik]

By common I mean in how many people have tried it, not how often they actually happen

Anyways, thinking over the last few women I've been with, 4 out of five have tried it in some way, in two cases it was the girls playing with each other while a guy watched. I've wondered whether or not its just the kind of woman I meet or this is really a common form of sexual experimentation the average person tries at some point?

From my male friends, only one that I can think of has had a threesome, a few have "tag teamed" girls as well, I don't count that

Anyway, whats your opinion, is it just the kind of women I attract or is this really that common in this modern society with the abundance of booze and alchohol acompanying sex?

[VincenzoG91]

Only one of my friends has ever bragged about having a threesome. He's bisexual, but he had a threesome with two women.

Years ago, I read an interesting book about Miami, Florida. I think it was written in the late '80s or maybe early '90s. Anyway, the author commented at one point that some of the hotels that he stayed at in Miami tended to put three mints on the pillows of each bed, apparently because threesomes were common enough at that time, at least in Miami.

[girl68]

Depends on the crowd and the "type" of people.

Not 1 of my friends have tried anything like this. We've all expressed some mild interest but none of us are willing to "share" our men. Nor would we go out an get down with random people to meet this urge so for my group it's all fantasy with no real space for trial.

If you have slutty fiends the chances they've tried it are significantly higher than slightly more reserved folk.

[erik]

I kind of figured it was about the woman I know, however all of them I met in bars or online, not part of my social circle. Your right though, only one girl in the four would I have considered to be "regular" (compared to my own, which only just started frequently in the last two years) in her sexual history apart from having a threesome or something akin to it. Still, I really don't know what I could define as "slutty" either, this is what I have been accustomed to. I don't have the belief that girls experimenting with each other is something that only "slutty" girls do, I kind of see it in the same light as using sex toys, leather, bondage etc

[erik]

It also begs the question of how much you know about your friends? Do they truely tell you everything about their sexual history

[girl68]

It also begs the question of how much you know about your friends? Do they truely tell you everything about their sexual history

Considering we talk about sizes and shapes and when we last used our dildos I'd say we're 100% comfortable with talking about our sexuality. This only applies to my very closest gf's obviously.

[erik]

Considering we talk about sizes and shapes and when we last used our dildos I'd say we're 100% comfortable with talking about our sexuality. This only applies to my very closest gf's obviously.

I can talk about jerking off, dick size, all that bullshit with my friends, I may keep a secret what I do with the girls I'm with though, if they ask me. If I ever did something like tag teaming a girl I may keep that a secret as well, anything thats regular though we'll talk about, even anal sex or rape-like fantasy stuff

[girl68]

LOL that's real nice, I know my girls far better. May not be what you consider appropriate but whatever. I'd say only 2 girls know just about everything about me, including the sex.

[asdfg789]

however all of them I met in bars or online, not part of my social circle

in that case, they may not be telling the truth. maybe just what they think you want to hear ?

[IndigoGal]

I've had a few threesomes (and a few more-than-threesomes). I think different people have different attitudes about it. It was definitely something I did when I was younger. Not sure if I'd still be game in the right situation now or not.

Depends on the crowd and the "type" of people.

Not 1 of my friends have tried anything like this. We've all expressed some mild interest but none of us are willing to "share" our men. Nor would we go out an get down with random people to meet this urge so for my group it's all fantasy with no real space for trial.

If you have slutty fiends the chances they've tried it are significantly higher than slightly more reserved folk.

The fact that you're so willing to call people slutty may mean that your friends don't tell you things you could judge them for. Clearly you find sex toys acceptable, so they know you won't judge them for that. But they may just keep their mouths shut about things you find questionable so they don't get branded "slutty."

[girl68]

The fact that you're so willing to call people slutty may mean that your friends don't tell you things you could judge them for. Clearly you find sex toys acceptable, so they know you won't judge them for that. But they may just keep their mouths shut about things you find questionable so they don't get branded "slutty."

I think it's funny you know my definition of "slutty". I don't go 'round calling people sluts. I used the term slutty, so? If you take that as derogatory so be it. I could sing your slutty praises, I just don't have the balls to get down dirty and naked with more than 1 dude at the same time. So you are inferring I'm using the word negatively and you would be wrong.

[erik]

I've been sorting of kicking myself lately for having dated so many girls willing to have a threesome and I've yet to try it still, its pretty bothersome

[DarkHelmet82]

i would never have a threesome.. i dont see the appeal to be honest..

[VincenzoG91]

I would be up for a threesome, but not with a serious girlfriend. It seems like a reckless way to handle a long-term relationship.

[DarkHelmet82]

you ALWAYS like one girl more than another.. if i was younger and didnt want a serious relationship.. sure.. but at this point in my life i dont see it happeneing.