Iv slept with a few men.. 2 of which were complete one night stands. And i felt no attatchment what so ever. Never kicked myself for doing so, wasnt drunk.. Just wanted to feel a mans body! For men i am attracted to and actually interested in i will wait. Wait until i know for sure they are with me for more than sex.
ShellyZ you explained it perfectly above. Sex is SO much more enjoyable with somebody you love and trust. I waited with my first ever boyfriend 9 months before i had sex with him. I lost my virginity to him, and he dumped me a week later.. Never have i ever felt as worthless in my life.
Sex is definitely completely different to men than it is women..
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