ok so i developed a crush on a guy (let's just call him R) i've known for about a year at school. when we first met, i was attracted to him, but ignored it because we were both in relationships. over the course of the spring semester, we both broke up with our significant others independently. a few months after i'd broken up with my boyfriend, i began seeing R around school more, and regained feelings for him..and i could tell he was interested in me too. we began spending progressively more time together, and saw each other almost every day during finals to hang out and study together. i wanted to take things slow because id just gotten out of a relationship, we were both busy with finals, and i figured there'd be plenty of time for us to get together over the summer, when we'd be interning together
wrong.
now we're interning with each other, but i feel like i never get the chance to hang out with him alone...he's always with a group of people! also, to make matters worse, it seems this girl i know has a crush on him, and he's sort of acting interested back? i dont know what's going on with him, he definitely was very interested in me before school ended...i know that from what he told a mutual friend of ours and just generally how he acted around me. i find it hard to believe that all his feelings for me could have dissipated over the course of THREE days... anyway, my question, to men specifically, is is there anything i can do to sort of regain my power in this situation? i feel like it's rapidly slipping out of my control and it's driving me crazy...should i talk to other guys and hope he gets jealous??
any advice is appreciated. danke.