Last time I dated a guy and we ate lunch and I blurted out your paying? And he said yea... you can pay for the movies and when I watched glee and Quin told that blond hair guy that a guy should always pay on a first date and took that advice this time around. Yesterday I went out out a date with a guy and he paid. at the theaters he asked if I had a 10? And I said sorry I didn't I only have a 20 but he paid for movies n dinner... Should guys pay on a first date?
Because i realize I made a mistake last time with that guy and he sorta I guess took it for granted.... Sometimes he would pay for me sometimes he would not... Last time, we went to dinner and I said I don't have enough... and he didn't even respond or he probably didn't hear me because I didn't say it that loud. I though he paid for me because we dated each other for 2-3 months already. He end up paying anyways cuz I didn't have enough. He really takes it for granted especially when I said I wanted to watch Kung Fu Panda and he said I don't mind if your paying... and I'm like seriously? a guy should be paying... if you put it that way.. cuz he has a job and I don't I just graduated from college... I'm jobless at the moment. I said i ain't paying and he said F U... I was like wtf? I think he was joking but still...
But back to first dates... should guys pay for the first date?
I feel bad because it was like $70 that day.. should i tell him that it is my treat next time or no? I have some fandango deals that I could use which help me save $21 for two tickets lol... I don't like people paying for me, but I can't let guys take advantage of me like the other guy...
My ex also didn't pay for me either when we went to watch movies with our friends and it was only $5 for the fandango deals, but it was before we made it official or before he said he liked me or w/e.. The worse part is him asking if he wants him to pay for me and I was like what kind of question is that. If you want to pay, then pay, but why ask me? it's just weird... my friend even thought so. I don't like cheap guys.... like him... I took his staples that he bought cuz it was in my bag and he kept asking where my staples? give me back my staples and I said no cuz he won't listen to me besides it's only $1.50? -.- ..... cheap.. lol