Well after pondering, my question was answered last night. She called me. I didn't pick up, but I called her back. She told me her friend cancelled on her to go to this Gala on Saturday and wanted to know if I still wanted to go. I asked her WHY she wanted to go with me. She hesitated and then said she thought it would be fun and that she really needed someone to go with.
Just to give you all an idea. Last week when I established this no contact thing, I did confirm that I WOULDN'T be going to the Gala with her and she said she would find someone else. Turns out she did, but they cancelled.
Anyway, so I told her that I didn't understand why she was asking, because of the conversation we had last week and she said she knows and apologized and said if I felt uncomfortable I didn't have to go.
I guess I figure if she knew than WHY would she call me and also I just wanted to let you all know that you're right, I'll wait for her to call again. But let me know what you think of my answer. I can't be pulled on a string like this, but I do have some doubts about it.