Honey, I am your classic average. The only area I can think of that I am above average is in intelligence but that is according to a system that I don't necessarily believe in.
As for the guy thing, you don't want to be the person that has people falling all over themselves for you, you seriously don't. My best friend is one of those girls who manages to get every guys she's been with to fall madly in love with her to a point where they don't seem to get over her. When we were younger I was so jealous and wondered what on earth she had that I didn't. Now I realise this ability of hers is almost a curse. She tries to be nice to her exes and stay friends which impacts her ability to move on. Out of her 4 last relationships she has 3 guys that would do anything for her and she doesn't want anything from them, yes she can't bring herself to cut them loose.
When you start feeling average, focus on what makes you special. When you feel alone, learn to enjoy it. Being alone can be a blessing and when you never get it any more you'll regret not enjoying it when you had it.
'People are never perfect but love can be. People waste time looking for the perfect lover rather than creating the perfect love' - Princess Leigh-Cheri from Still Life With Woodpecker.