What is Love?

[IndiReloaded]

I'm really thinking this is a troll. 'Muddblood' SN--a la harry potter? A guy married 15+ years w/kids who doesn't know his wife could get alimony until she gets on her feet (i.e. a job)?

Smells like a jobless teenager to me.

[Jolicoeur]

I'm really thinking this is a troll. 'Muddblood' SN--a la harry potter? A guy married 15+ years w/kids who doesn't know his wife could get alimony until she gets on her feet (i.e. a job)?

Smells like a jobless teenager to me.

Indi, I have this feeling about many treads on this forum. But I think situations like this one are possible. Some people would do anything to have a semblance of a normal life.

In the end, what does it matter if some users here are making fun of us. For the most part we support each other through our difficult ordeals, which is why most of us are here anyway.

For the record, I think you are not a fraud, muddblood. But I do find it incredible how you got suckered into this deal. If I were you, I'd have a long talk with a lawyer before you start telling your wife that you plan to leave her (if that is your plan eventually).

[muddblood]

I'm really thinking this is a troll. 'Muddblood' SN--a la harry potter? A guy married 15+ years w/kids who doesn't know his wife could get alimony until she gets on her feet (i.e. a job)?

Smells like a jobless teenager to me.

Yup, you nailed it. I'm a jobless teenage troll. Thanks for the help ass hole!!!!

[muddblood]

Well, their eyes light up with life. If you were in love you would know it.

Right, and you can see it in their smile and actions and body language, right? Usually when someone tells me to give up and look for someone else, I have no problem doing so, but I can see it in the eyes and smile of this girl at work. I hardly ever make eye contact with my wife, and I never say "I love you" first to my wife yet, I sdo these things all the time to this girl at work. She is giving me so many mixed signals. That's why I posted this thread because I am so confused as to what love is.

[Jolicoeur]

Thanks for the help ass hole!!!!

Come on, don't be like that. You've got to admit the situation you discribed is out of the ordinary. People are allowed to express their doubt. Indi is very direct, but she often gives good advice.

Right, and you can see it in their smile and actions and body language, right?

As far as I know I've never been loved.

[muddblood]

Come on, don't be like that. You've got to admit the situation you discribed is out of the ordinary. People are allowed to express their doubt. Indi is very direct, but she often gives good advice..

Sorry, it's just a very emotional and trying and stressful time and it's really getting to me. I know it's out of the ordinary, that's why I seek help and advice. I tend to get very defensive when people just assume things instead of offering help or advice. No, I am not a teenager (actually twice the age of legal), I do have a job (how else can I pay for my mortgage), troll? Maybe. Muddblood yes I borrowed it from Harry Potter because it fits my lifestyle of 4 wheeling and mountain biking; mud in my blood, hence muddblood. I will try to be more controlling of my emotions and take comments like that with a grain of salt.

As far as I know I've never been loved.

Why do you say that you've never been loved? Surely you had to have been at some point.

[bulrush]

What is love?
Baby don't hurt me.
Don't hurt me,
no more.

lolololol.

[maxmax]

Love is dribbling on the pillow in your sleep and her thinking its cute, rather than gross ...

[lahnnabell]

Love is dribbling on the pillow in your sleep and her thinking its cute, rather than gross ...

My boyfriend does this. I adore him. But no, it's not cute. I drool and it's so not cute either.

[muddblood]

Love is dribbling on the pillow in your sleep and her thinking its cute, rather than gross ...

Awwww, that's good. I like that.

[bulrush]

Love is when your gf makes cute little snores in her sleep, and you like it.

[Jolicoeur]

Why do you say that you've never been loved?

I've never seen the reaction you discribed.

... this is embarrassing even on an online forum. I do long for it though...

Love is dribbling on the pillow in your sleep and her thinking its cute, rather than gross ...

I read once that the little issues we find cute in a partner at first, become the issues we grow to hate later.

[maxmax]

I read once that the little issues we find cute in a partner at first, become the issues we grow to hate later.

That's once the love and romance has gone ...

[lahnnabell]

Love is when your gf makes cute little snores in her sleep, and you like it.

I'm like a machine when I snore sometimes... It's awful. Somehow my BF got used to it though.

[muddblood]

I've never seen the reaction you discribed.

... this is embarrassing even on an online forum. I do long for it though...

Awwww...Well, I've only had it twice, 18 years apart, and never with my wife. Sorry, didn't mean to embarrass you.

I read once that the little issues we find cute in a partner at first, become the issues we grow to hate later.

I was kinda thinking the same thing - perhaps that this is puppy love? However, I've read that love is not wanting to change the person you're with and accepting them for who they are, so these little things kinda come with the package.