There's no right or wrong answer to this question, only opinions.
But I'll ask all the same.
Me and my boyfriend have been together for about two and a half years. We live together and since we moved in last year in my opinion.. It's slowly gone down hill.
I find myself feeling very bored and quick to anger. We hardly have sex anymore and when we do it lasts about a minute and is largely based on his orgasm. I find myself thinking about sex with other people alot of the time.
We get on well with eachother but were also very different. He'd happily stay in and play games all night whereas I need some sort of stimulation. I find myself wanting to hang out with my friends more and more instead of sitting on the sofa for another night.
We don't date anymore, we don't go out together much because he never wants to.
He senses something is wrong.. Well I've told him about these problems I'm having and he says we'll work them out.. When I went out the other night he said that he wanted to come with me next time.. Which is sweet but my heart almost dropped a little because he doesn't dance, doesn't really talk to any of my friends or make an effort like I do with his And it makes things awkward because I feel more like he's there to keep an eye On me and not because he genuinely wants to.
I don't know whether things are coming to an end.. I believe so.. I just keep thinking about how much I used to want to see him and how we went on little escapades and did things and now I feel as though I'm 40 years old and married. I'm only 22.
I've tried all the sex gimics it's not working out, we've gone out and stuff recently and it's been great and wonderful but it never lasts..
I sometimes feel like were just best housemates
Has anyone who has experienced the end of a relationship (where noone has cheated etc, just that the love died abit) describe to me how it happened.. Did you feel the same as here? Or different?