I met this guy a month or so ago , I fancied him for a while before we actually met , he works in a shop I'm going quite often , I had to do some detective work to get his phone number , we started Txting and he seemed a bit weird . He didn't seem interested so I let it go after a few days and stopped contacting him . And then he started being different , he introduced himself told me a bit about himself and I was hooked again. He works really long hours so we managed to meet on his lunch break and had lunch together . I was smitten , he was lovely , a gentleman , smart and down to earth. We kissed at the end and I felt butterflies . Straight after he asked me what was my impression of him , told him it's all good he said he thinks I'm amazing blah blah . Then everything changed , he wasnt even bothering to text back , so I was getting frustrated . We talked on the phone and he explained that he has a lot going on and he wants to be with me but it's not the right time . I believed him and I tried to stay positive. Next time we met was even better , he took me to a nice quiet pub , showed me pictures of his family , drove me to the train station , on the way at every stoplight he was leaning in to kiss me , sang to me .. And then cold again , got me really confused . Whenever I knew he had time I tried to meet him but somehow he had something else to do . Finally we met again , I was on break from work for 3 hours. He was off , he said we can meet but he has a few things to do , we met I asked what he had to do he said a presentation for work and asked me if I minded going to his place help him with it , I smiled and I said yes . He looked at me and said I really have to do that so promise you'll be a good girl , I said yes I promise . We got there he showed me around , got me a drink and got started with the presentation. I had someting else in my mind . I started teasing him , and he was still triyng to concentrate on the project , well at some point he gave in and took me in his arms carried me upstairs in his bedroom . I had the best sex ever , and it seemed that he enjoyed too , he kept saying I'm perfect . I couldn't walk properly afterwards let alone go back to work , but I had to , he drove me back and again cold .when I tell him I'm confused or I'm upset he usually explains why he's been like that and now he doesn't even bother, before he said he wants all the things I want I just need to be patient , now he can't give me a relationship , we had a few fights , he told me it's not going to work , I humiliated myself n said Im happy with whatever he can give me.the only thing that made me say that was that I never ever felt that passion with anyone else , when we r together I feel like he wants me more than anything , the minute i leave he's a completely different person. Confused ?