You two need to have a serious talk about what is going on. During this talk see if she admits wholly to what she is doing, and that it is clearly dishonest when she hides things from you or lies about them, saying they are innocent conversations. If she continues to have denial, break up. She is not ready to admit who she is. She clearly doesn't respect you as a person, and does not deem you worthy of honesty or trust.
You can always get back together later if things work out. But you also need to talk to her about if she needs variety in her life, or if she just isn't committed to you. There's a difference. Some people need variety and some couples can work this out. Most do not have healthy, secure relationships to deal with this.
What is also a red flag to me is, she never tried to talk to you about this issue. Bad communication=bad relationship.
Last edited by bulrush; 15-09-11 at 11:56 PM.
I have a long time interest in psychology, specializing in relationship dynamics for 30 years.
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