He's the one that isn't aware. He's so far from tantric that's it's laughable. Someone who can't even tell another "baby, take of the rings" in a calm and sensual manner does not have a fking clue. Someone who can't talk to another in a calm and sensual manner in how to please them is NOT AWARE.You are not aware, simple as that.
I'd have broken up with him after that as well. He should get himeself a "Real Doll" and he can position her anyway his old cock wants it. pfffft. Don't feel bad he's gone ~ he didn't even offer a solution.
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31-10-11, 12:50 AM #16
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31-10-11, 12:54 AM #17
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Thanks wakeup. I am relieved to have it over. Yes, sometimes I felt like a ragdoll for him and that is sooooo not right!!
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31-10-11, 02:49 AM #18
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First, I LOVE when a woman squeezes me. And I love to be touched all over, and I mean to stay connected to my partner.
Are you so stressed that you didn't have the energy to work this out? He told you what bothered him, then you gave up.I just now ended it! I told him this was never going to work-- I'm done.I have a long time interest in psychology, specializing in relationship dynamics for 30 years.
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31-10-11, 02:59 AM #19
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Not stressed-- just don't care. I have no idea what he's talking about in most of his reply. It's as if he was making love to another woman and got the 2 of us mixed up!!
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He was fine with breaking up-- no argument whatsoever-- so that just shows me he doesn't care about me. the end.If you carry old bricks from your past relationship to your new one,
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31-10-11, 03:05 AM #20
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Benni,
I understood him just fine. When he positions you, he wants you to stay still. That's his preference.
And he only just mentioned he doesn't like your rings. If it bothered him, he should have said so the first time. I can see where rings might hurt for a Handy J.
My rule with my gf is we talk about things that bother us within 24 hours. And we don't let the issue simmer and grow ugly. So, her and I had an issue with...um...teeth. And, though I was a little late, I did mention it to her, and found a solution. Gummerz. Which are tooth covers. Too much information? lol.Last edited by bulrush; 31-10-11 at 03:17 AM.
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31-10-11, 03:18 AM #21
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hahahaha-- not too much info at all!
No, that was the problem-- things stewed for too long before anything was said and then when it was said- it was rude. He doesn't care/ I don't care. Done.If you carry old bricks from your past relationship to your new one,
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31-10-11, 03:25 AM #22
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Yes, he was a LITTLE rude, but it's up to you to leave him or work it out. He really should have said something earlier, but some guys need encouragement in that department.
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He had plenty of encouragement. I've asked him many times what I could do for him or not do-- his reply was always the same= 'no worries, all is fine.' So, that's on him.
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31-10-11, 04:18 AM #24
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Ah. Sorry to hear you had to break it off.
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You did the right thing, as soon as I read the first post I thought "how the hell can she still be together with such an a-hole!". Forcing you to change position even when it's clear that it just comes natural to you to move, because you enjoy it, I mean it's so unspontaneous and wrong! It's like he wants a doll rather than a real woman. And the rings - why the hell didn't he tell you straight away?! It's easy really! I can't believe at his age he still hasn't something so basic (talking about sex with his sex partner) figured out.
Good for you to get rid of him!!
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Thank you!!
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Agreed, Benni, you did the right thing. I find it interesting that in his message back to you he doesn't mention anything about your preferences/wellbeing, he sounds whiny
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Yep! He doesn't ask what I need or want. Glad I don't have to put up with it any longer. Originally Posted by workingman78
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Amen, finally someone with common sense!
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Thank you!
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