I've been with my bf in a long distance relationship for a year and a half. We dont live that far apart, we met once every 2-3 weeks.
The problem is that i love him so much and he doesnt. Its not that i don't hear 'i love you', you can also tell from his behaviour that he doesn't. We get along well, but he's sometimes cold to me. He says we've been fighting from time to time and maybe that was the reason he didnt get too attached to me, and also because of the distance.
He loved a girl before, so its not that he cant love anyone.
When I bring this up, he says he's sorry but he doesnt feel the same way and maybe if I have patience..
We're both 26. I asked him about our future and he said he's not thinking about the future, he lives only in the present. But he plans on moving to my town next summer, so maybe then we will have a proper relationship..
Today I told him I am wasting my time and he said he doesnt think he is wasting his.
I love him so much and I tell myself ok, i'll wait, maybe he'll wake up one day and realise he loves me. But how long should I wait? What would you do? Thank you!