I see life as made up of chapters, delineated by major events, such as relationships. You have simply ended one chapter, and begun another one. Learn from the past, and apply that new wisdom to the future. She was very immature just to ignore you and not even tell you that you two had broken up. Now find a girl that is more mature and direct with you. You deserve it.
In every relationship I have, I learn a little more about what I want, and more about what I don't want in a partner. For example, I have learned that it is irritating when a girl simply stops contacting me. I would rather she said that she is not interested in me. I am not a person with a lot of drama, just tell me the truth, and I'll move on. But don't disrespect me by ignoring me.
I have a long time interest in psychology, specializing in relationship dynamics for 30 years.
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