In an Early Relationship, How Often Do You See Each Other?

[erik]

Or should you see each other ideally if the relationship is to progess?

I went out with this girl for the first time on Monday, we hit it off and even planned on seeing each other the following night but ended up getting together Wednesday. That date went well also, cuddling, kissing included and she said that she wanted to see me either Friday or Saturday night, adding "maybe both" Anyways, the night after I worked late so we couldn't meet up and on Friday she ended up going out with her friends at one point calling me drunk to tell me she ripped her expensive pants(?) and now today shes not seeing me again because her stepmom needs her or something?? She had just got out of a nine month relationship, I hope i wasn't just a temporary emotional rebound and that the flare is waring off. Probably just paranoid as I tend to be but any advice or anecdotes are welcomed

[erik]

I do most of the contacting her, either calling or text (usually the latter).