why did he treat me differently than he treated other girls? helppp

[Livelaughlove17]

Alright, I was with this guy for about 2 months (not very long, I know, but I liked him a lot) we broke up 2 weeks ago because he is shipping out soon. The last thing he said to me was "you're a great girl and I had feelings, but I'm going to be in the military for 20 years. It's just best if I leave single." i have heard from a few people including his other ex that he cheats, hits girls, and just treats them like crap. but he was different with me. like after breaking up with this girl he said he just wanted her for sex anyways..but with me he was actually upset about it. here's some of the things he did while we were together:
1. He would randomly kiss me on the top of my head
2. He would said "you complete me" and "you're the best thing that's ever happened to me"
3. We never had sex. We did things, but only because I made the first moves.
4. He didnt talk to any other girls, ever.
5. He would go out of his way to see me; one time he even followed me home to make sure I got there safe.
6. He would act like we were going to get married and have kids, like plan out our future.
7. He talked to my friend about our breakup and he seemed like he didn't want to breakup, he just had to.
8. He would've done anything for me, or thats what he told me; he even told me all about his abusive childhood and how hard it was growing up in his house.
9. he looked at me like i was his child or something; he was very protective.
10. we were alwaysss either talking or together, 24/7.
11. now, he will go out of his way to stare at me..
Now he ignores me, it's like I never existed. I know he still talks to girls that he only dated to get in their pants...
It's just that he seemed to reallllly like me, then just ended it, like that. His good friend told me that he is becoming distant from a lot of people, because he's nervous about leaving. His family is big in the military..
I guess my question is, why did he treat me differently, and do you think he actually liked me/cared about me?
He said that he didn't have feelings now that he was closer to shipping out. Maybe that was just an excuse, since he was still upset about the breakup after?...
any input would be helpful. thanks!

[Wakeup]

Alright, I was with this guy for about 2 months (not very long, I know, but I liked him a lot) we broke up 2 weeks ago because he is shipping out soon. The last thing he said to me was "you're a great girl and I had feelings, but I'm going to be in the military for 20 years. It's just best if I leave single." i have heard from a few people including his other ex that he cheats, hits girls, and just treats them like crap. but he was different with me. like after breaking up with this girl he said he just wanted her for sex anyways..but with me he was actually upset about it. here's some of the things he did while we were together:
1. He would randomly kiss me on the top of my head
2. He would said "you complete me" and "you're the best thing that's ever happened to me"
3. We never had sex. We did things, but only because I made the first moves.
4. He didnt talk to any other girls, ever.
5. He would go out of his way to see me; one time he even followed me home to make sure I got there safe.
6. He would act like we were going to get married and have kids, like plan out our future.
7. He talked to my friend about our breakup and he seemed like he didn't want to breakup, he just had to.
8. He would've done anything for me, or thats what he told me; he even told me all about his abusive childhood and how hard it was growing up in his house.
9. he looked at me like i was his child or something; he was very protective.
10. we were alwaysss either talking or together, 24/7.
11. now, he will go out of his way to stare at me..
Now he ignores me, it's like I never existed. I know he still talks to girls that he only dated to get in their pants...
It's just that he seemed to reallllly like me, then just ended it, like that. His good friend told me that he is becoming distant from a lot of people, because he's nervous about leaving. His family is big in the military..
I guess my question is, why did he treat me differently, and do you think he actually liked me/cared about me?
He said that he didn't have feelings now that he was closer to shipping out. Maybe that was just an excuse, since he was still upset about the breakup after?...
any input would be helpful. thanks!

Don't stagnate yourself from getting over him by being in denial and thinking that you were any different then the other woman he enjoyed and then used the Military (or any other excuse) to ditch at his convenience. He sounds like a total playboy/player/philanderer/liker of options/lousy longterm boyfriend material.

He wants to go into the military as a single player. Leave him to it. I'm sure he was fond of you (just like all the others) but he's not going to settle down with you or anyone else anytime soon.

Tuck him away in your memory and get on with your life.

P.S. It was only two months and he KNEW when he started with you that he would be leaving to be in the military ~ To bad he didn't inform you when he met you that he'd be leaving as a single man and dumping you so you could make an informed decision as to whether or not you should get involved with him. (Player)