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    So your girlfriend says she is going on holiday without you

    You been with each other for a few months and she suddenly says that last week her friend asked her to go on holiday with her, their male friend and his male friend and she is going.


    Without asking you or anything. Whats going on here?

    What do you do?

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    Quote Originally Posted by oneeyebrow View Post
    You been with each other for a few months and she suddenly says that last week her friend asked her to go on holiday with her, their male friend and his male friend and she is going.


    Without asking you or anything. Whats going on here?

    What do you do?
    Ask to join them. If she says no then you tell her have a good life and don't call me when you get back. Wave bubbye!

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    Two male friends- sharing a condo? Sounds fishy to me. Sadly if you've only been together a few months she may not feel obliged to do as she's told by you.

    All you can do is let her go and see how she is when she gets back.
    My bf and I have been away once and he has been away twice with friends and I was fine. For one of them he asked his buddies if I could come but his friends weren't keen.

    I'd ask to see the photos. If she's overly chummy chummy in them I'd ask her to get serious or go home.

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    To be honest I did not really mind she is going on holiday.

    What it is, is that she gave me so much rubbish about things I do and then does things she would rip me apart for.
    I guess its more about she wants to play by her rules and if I do something she can do, she would tear my head off about it.

    One night she went out with her friend, and I went out on my own. I told her the next day I went out on my own because my friends were all busy and she gave me rubbish all night long.
    Not only that but plenty of other things.

    Anyways she said she needs to find her feet, so we are not actually together anymore.

    Probably the best thing that could happen really

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    She's a hypocrite and you ducked a bullet. Move on and be happy.
    Good decisions come from experience. Experience comes from bad decisions.

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    "Find her feet", is girlcode for find this other dude's dick in her ass while she's on holiday. Don't respond to her when she calls you upon her return.

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    VincenzoG91 she definitely is and your totally right.

    I was an idiot for staying in the relationship for as long as I did.
    Time to move on to someone better
    Last edited by oneeyebrow; 01-05-12 at 12:43 AM.

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