Hey all,
Need some advice from you if you don't mind.
My relationship has taken a downward spiral and my girlfriend of 6 years has admitted to 'sexting' other guys and to kissing one of them. We have been talking about the reasons and it looks like she felt that we didn't want the same thing from our relationship and sought attention elsewhere. To me this is an affair but to her it's just stupid messages that meant nothing. Despite me telling her how I see it she will not acknowledge my feelings.
She has apologised and says she won't do it again but she has shattered my perfect world and I have no trust in her anymore. I have started taking anti-depressants but feel that she doesn't want to support me.
When I have challenged about it she says that it's not her and she doesn't do sympathy. This is true to her character but I thought that it should be different under the circumstances.
We have spoken about splitting up and I nearly left last night but she broke down in tears and I stayed. Although this morning she is more level headed and says she knows thy she will move on from me.
I am so torn about what to do as on one side we had everything and have said we are willing to try and make it work but on the other hand I feel that she isn't willing to support me or work towards a future. I have shown her a couple of web-pages with how I am feeling and how she could help me move forward but she showed disregard for them as in her mind it is all over and meant nothing.
Has anyone been in a similar situation to me? If so what did you do to move your life forward?
Please can anyone offer some advice?
Thanks
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